安妮特科尔比

AnnetteColby

Didyouknowthatyoucanincreaseyourabilitytobesuccessfulbyconsciouslychoosingtherightwords?Itstrue!Letssayyouremotivated，excitedeven，tocreatechangeinyourlife.Youveevengonesofarastoutyourwell-formedgoalsdowninwriting.Fromthere，youvedeterminedyourfirststestobegintherocessofchangingyoureatinghabitsandexercisingmore.Youvegotenormousenthusiasmandknowexactlywhatitisyouregoingtodo.Youchooseyourgoalfortomorrow，andtheninadvertentlycrileyoursuccessbeforeyouevenstart.Yousay，

"Illtry.

"

Whatdoes

"Illtry

"mean?Itmeansyouvegivenyourselfanout.Shouldsomeobstaclesurface，younowhaveabuilt-inescaeroutethatgetsyouoffthehook.Thewordresuosesfailure.Itlacksintentionandconfidence.Youaresowingdoubtinyourownmind.Itsays，

"Alright，Illgiveitago，butIcantreallyseeitworkingout.

"

Nowobservewhatitfeelsliketosay

"Iam

".Forexamle，

"Iamnowcommittedtofeelinggoodbyhonoringmydecisiontowalk20minutestoday.

"Ifitdoesntfeelright，thenyouveselectedagoalthatissomethingotherthanyournaturalfirstste.Backuandfindtheactionsteyouarereadytoundertake.Itdoesntmatterhowsmallandinsignificantitmayseematthetime.Yourebetteroffstartingwithsomethingteeny-tinyandachievingsuccess，thanstartingwithsomethingyoualreadyknowyourenotreadyfor.ThewiseLao-Tzuoncestated，

"Ajourneyofathousandmilesmustbeginwithasingleste.

"Makesureyouareabletocomleteyourfirstste.

Perhashavingrevisedyourinitialstartingoint，againnoticewhatitfeelsliketosay，

"Iamnow

".Thishrasedirectsyouandsaysthatyouhaveowerandintention.Itsaysthatyoubelieveinwhatyouaresayingandyouwillfindawaytomakeithaen.Youvemadeacommitmenttoyourselfthatyouvechosentohonor.Itsaysthatyouwillfindawaytogetitdoneevenifthingsgetintheway.Itmeansthatevenifdifficultiesou，youllfindsomewaytosticktoyourintent.

Onceyoufindalanofactionthatseemsdoable，forgettryingtodoit.Totrytodosomethingistonotdoit.Instead，declarewhole-heartedly，

"Iamnowachievingthis!

"

Makeyoursuccessinevitable.

你是否明白，有意识地选择恰当的词语可以提高自己取得成功的能力？这是真的！可以这么说，你拥有了动力，并且极富热情地想要改造自己的生活。你甚至已经将自己想好的目标写在了纸上。你已经想好了开始这个过程的前几步：改变饮食习惯，勤加锻炼。你饱含激情，而且你很明确下一步要做什么。你已经选择了未来的目标，然而在尚未开始之前，你就在不经意间降低了你的成功率。你说道：“我试试吧！”