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weveallbeenbrainwashed！Wewerealltaughttheworkethic！

"Work（andsuffer）tillyoudie，orifyoureluckyretire。Wedonthavetimetowasteonfrivolities。Wehaveresonsibilitiestofulfill。Wehavetobeserious，workhard，riseinourcareer，makelotsofmoney，andmakeearningmoneyandadvancinginourcareerariority1。

"

Iwishtochangethatrogramming2inmylife。IknowthatwhenIdothethingsIenjoydoing，thingsworkoutbetterforme。IknowthatwhenIdosomethingagainstmywill，againstmyheart，itdoesntworkoutwell。Iknowthatstressingmyselfouttotrytogetajobdoneusuallytakestwiceaslongastakingtimeoutanddoingthatsametaskatsomeothertimeinarelaxed3manner。

Wecanchangethecriteriabywhichwedecidewhattodoinourlives。Insteadof

"Willitbringinlotsofmoneyoradvancemycareer

"，weneedtoaskourselves，

"WillIenjoydoingthis?Willthisbefun?AmIlookingforwardtogettingstartedonthis?

"

Ifyoucantanswer

"yes

"tothesequestions，thenquiteossiblythisisnotthetaskforyou！

Ifitissomethingthatmustbedone，i。e。taxes，dishes，etc。thesolutionistofindsomeoneelsetodothemforyou。Therearesomeeolewhowillenjoyandlovetodowhatyourefernottodo。Really！Forexamle，Iamnottheworldsbesthousekeeer。Idonotreallyenjoycleaning，washingfloors，windows，etc。Yettherearesomeeolewhoenjoythemeditativeasectofthisworkandwhoreallygetsatisfactionfromajobwelldone。ItistomybenefittoaysomeonetodothisworksoIcantakethattimeearningmoneydoingthingsthatIenjoy。

Weareallverydifferentanddifferentthingsaealtoeachoneofus。Justbecausesomeoneelseenjoysaarticularthingdoesnotmeanthatyoumust。WecantrustwhatIcallthe

"funindex

"toassistusinknowingifaarticularactionistheoneforus。Wecanbreakawayfromtheruleofthumbthatjudgesthingsbywhethertheybringmoneyorcareeradvancement。Wecanchangethattomakingourdecisionsbasedonwhetheranactionwillbringusleasureandersonalsatisfaction。Doestheworkyoudoleaveyoufeelingroudandleasedwithyourself?Areyoufollowingthevoiceof

"shoulds

"ortheoneof

"wantto